This Privacy Policy explains how Flare (“Flare,” “we,” “us,” or “our”) collects, uses, shares, and protects information when you use the Flare mobile apps, websites (including flaresparkdating.com), and related services (the “Services”). Flare is a Mature-rated, 18+ dating, Live streaming, and user-generated content (UGC) platform for adults only.
By using the Services, you agree to this Privacy Policy. If you do not agree, do not use Flare. This Policy should be read together with our Terms of Service and Community Guidelines.
1. Who we are
Flare is operated by Christian Shumpert, sole proprietor (“Operator”). For privacy questions and general support, contact ShumpertSafetyConsulting@gmail.com or call (682) 468-7844. Website: https://flaresparkdating.com.
2. Eligibility (18+)
The Services are a Mature-rated dating, Live streaming, and user-generated content (UGC) platform intended only for adults 18 years of age or older. We do not knowingly collect personal information from anyone under 18. If we learn that we have collected information from someone under 18, we will delete it and may terminate the account.
3. Information we collect
We collect information you provide, information generated through use of the Services, and information from devices and third parties as described below.
A. Account and profile information
Name or display name, email, date of birth or age confirmation, password or authentication credentials, photos, bio, interests, preferences, profile prompts, video prompts, Vibe Check answers, and other profile content you choose to add. If you set a Spotify anthem, we collect and display the track (and related metadata) you choose on your profile; Spotify’s terms and privacy policy apply to their service. We do not collect phone numbers for Flare accounts. If you complete profile selfie verification, we collect a short-lived photo of your face to help confirm your profile appears to show a real person. This is not government ID verification. We delete the verification selfie after the check (or within a short window needed for fraud or abuse review), and we may keep only the verification outcome (for example, that your account is verified). When you upload a profile photo, the Flare app compresses it and removes embedded metadata such as camera location (EXIF/GPS) before upload, and our servers re-encode it to strip any remaining metadata. Profile photos are stored with our hosting provider and shown to other Flare members as part of your profile.
B. Communications (including paid DMs)
Direct messages (including paid DMs), voice notes, in-app chat, support requests, and reports about users or content. Message and voice-note content may be processed for delivery, safety, fraud prevention, and moderation. When read receipts are enabled, we may record message delivery or read status and show it to people in that conversation.
Chat Rooms: messages you post in public or private Rooms, Room membership and invites, host and moderator actions (mutes, kicks), safety flags (“dings”) and soft bans, coin gifts sent in Rooms, and reports and blocks. Room messages are shown to the other people in that Room. We automatically scan Room messages to filter slurs, phone numbers, and links, and we keep moderation logs and message records for safety, enforcement, fraud prevention, and legal compliance. Coin gifts in Rooms are recorded as spends from the sender’s wallet; no one is credited. Private Rooms are not end-to-end encrypted. Starting a direct message requires selfie verification, which runs on your device; we store the verification status your app reports and use it to decide whether you can start DMs. It is a best-effort check, not a guarantee of identity.
Near Me Rooms (ZIP code): if you use Near Me, you enter your 5-digit ZIP code. This is approximate location. We store it on our servers and use it only to place you in the public Room for your area, which is based on the first three digits (for example, “Near Me · 750 area”). Your full ZIP code is never shown to other members, but anyone in that Room can see that you joined that area’s Room. We don’t use your ZIP for ads (Flare has no ads), don’t sell it, and don’t use GPS for Near Me. You can change your ZIP once every 24 hours. We don’t save a ZIP until you tap Save in Near Me. You can remove it anytime with “Remove my ZIP,” and it is deleted with your account (or contact us at ShumpertSafetyConsulting@gmail.com).
C. Live streaming and social activity
Stream metadata, Live video/audio as broadcast, Live chat, gift and tip records, viewer and host identifiers, timestamps, and related activity logs. We may record Live streams (video and audio) — not only while you are watching, but as saved recordings — for safety, moderation, policy enforcement, dispute handling, and posterity (so we can keep a lasting record of what was streamed when needed). Recordings are not deleted the moment a stream ends; we keep them as long as reasonably needed for those purposes and as described in Retention. If you use Incognito, we still process account activity as needed to operate the feature and for safety, but we limit showing certain browse activity to other users as the feature is designed. If you join or host a Live game (such as Spark Off, a gift race, or Team Spark), we process battle metadata (participants, start/end time, scores), related gift events, soft-ban or safety actions, and moderation signals for delivery, fairness, fraud prevention, dispute handling, and safety.
Live channels: who you follow, your in-app notifications, and your alert settings (we look up your account email only when sending an email alert you turned on); Live chat messages you send, with your display name and badges; moderation actions in a channel (deleted messages, timeouts); poll votes; channel-point balances and redemptions; channel subscriptions and the coin transactions that pay for them; custom emote images; clips you post (video and audio from the stream, a title, and that you made it); replays a streamer publishes; and reports you file. Others see your display name, badges, and chat messages in a stream’s chat, and your display name on clips you post. They don’t see your user ID or email. Streamers and their moderators don’t receive your contact details. Poll votes are shown only as totals, and follower and subscriber lists aren’t shown to other members. Clips and published replays are visible to signed-in Flare members. A stream’s chat keeps about its most recent 150 messages, and notifications keep your latest 100. Clips are kept until the creator, the streamer, or Flare deletes them, and deleted clips are removed from storage. Turning off a replay makes it private again; the underlying safety recording follows Live recording retention. When you delete your account, we delete your follows, notifications, alert settings, channel points, the clips you posted, your channel’s replays and clips of your channel, and your channel emotes, and we de-identify your chat messages. Subscription and coin records follow payment-record retention. Email alerts are sent through our email service provider, and each email explains how to turn them off.
Matchmaker Quiz: if you take the optional quiz, we store the answers you pick (multiple choice only; you can skip any question), the personality type we derive from them, your optional private dealbreakers, and your sharing settings. We use them to show you and other members a compatibility estimate and a few things you have in common. Other members see only that estimate and general shared-ground reasons, plus your type if you turn on “Show my type on my profile.” They see your actual answers only if you turn on “Matches can see your quiz answers,” and your dealbreakers are never shown to anyone. The estimate is for fun and is not a guarantee of compatibility. You can retake the quiz, clear your answers at any time (this permanently deletes them), or delete your account, which also deletes them.
Find a meetup spot: to suggest public venues, our servers send only a city or area name to OpenStreetMap services, without your name, account ID, or location. We don’t use GPS for this feature and don’t store your search. If you suggest a spot to a match, the venue is shared with them through Meetup Live as described in section E.
D. Payments and wallet
Purchase amounts, coin balances, Super Likes balances, gift history, VIP subscription status (weekly, monthly, or annual), payout or earnings status where applicable, and transaction metadata. Payment card numbers are processed by Google Play Billing (for Android in-app digital goods such as coins, Super Likes, and VIP) and/or Stripe (for web purchases). We do not store full payment card numbers on Flare servers.
Streamer payouts. If you cash out Live earnings, payouts are handled by Stripe through Stripe Connect. To create your payout account, Stripe collects and verifies your identity and banking information on its own pages, such as your legal name, date of birth, address, taxpayer ID or Social Security number, government ID, and bank account. Stripe uses this information under the Stripe Connected Account Agreement and the Stripe Privacy Policy. Flare does not collect or store your full Social Security number, ID documents, or full bank account number. Flare keeps your Stripe account ID, your account's verification and payout status, your email address, your earnings balance, your payout requests and our decisions on them, and records of holds, refunds, chargebacks, and fraud review that affect your earnings. Stripe may share limited details with us, such as the information it still needs from you or the last digits of your bank account, so we can help with payout issues. We use this information to pay you, prevent fraud and abuse, handle disputes, meet tax-reporting and other legal obligations, and alert our team by internal email, sent through our email service provider, when you request a payout. To update your identity or bank details, use your Stripe Express dashboard.
E. Location (Meetup Live)
If you enable Meetup Live, nearby, or meetup-safety / GPS locator features, we may collect approximate or precise location only after you Agree in Flare and grant device permission. Meetup Live requires an agreed public meetup place; the live map pin shown to your match is limited to roughly 0.3 miles of that place (coarsened), while farther away they see status and distance to the place rather than your live street location. If you Disagree or turn the feature off, we do not use GPS for that feature. Location is optional and can be revoked in your device settings and in Flare. Meetup-safety exists to create an optional safety evidence pack—check-in location, who you met (names/usernames and account identifiers), device IP address, timestamps, and related meetup conversation when that retention is disclosed to people in the meetup—that Flare holds and can provide to law enforcement or other authorities if something goes wrong, or when required by law. If you need a copy, you must ask Flare for it (we verify your account). It is not casual surveillance and we do not sell your location data. This is not government ID or biometric verification. Flare does not collect phone numbers for Flare accounts; the pack uses device IP and account data, not a mobile phone number, unless you later choose an optional emergency contact. You can end a session and disable location; we retain meetup-safety records as described in Retention (generally a limited period unless needed for a report, legal hold, safety investigation, or lawful authority request).
Meetup video calls (recorded): Meetup video calls are optional 1:1 calls. Before each call, both of you see a notice and must tap “I agree.” Recording starts only after you both agree, and a red REC badge shows for the whole call. We record the call’s video and audio for safety, and we log when and how each person consented. Calls run through our real-time video provider (LiveKit), and recordings are stored privately with our cloud storage provider. Recordings are not shared with your match, and neither of you can download them in the app. Only authorized Flare safety and legal staff can access them, to investigate reports, enforce our Terms, protect someone’s safety, or respond to lawful requests. We don’t use recordings for face recognition, voice identification, advertising, or AI training. We keep recordings for up to 90 days after the call, or longer while they’re needed for an active report, investigation, or legal hold. Because a recording includes the other person too, deleting your account doesn’t delete it before then. You can ask us for access to a recording you’re in (we verify your account); we may limit or redact what we provide to protect the other person’s privacy, someone’s safety, or an investigation.
F. Device and technical information
Device type, operating system, app version, device and advertising identifiers (where applicable), IP address, language, time zone, crash logs, diagnostics, and usage analytics. We intentionally collect crash logs, diagnostics, and usage analytics to operate and improve Flare and diagnose failures.
G. Cookies and similar (web)
On the website we use cookies and similar technologies for login, security, preferences, and analytics. You can control cookies through your browser settings; some features may not work if cookies are disabled.
H. Third parties
Sign-in providers (such as Google or Apple), app stores (including Google Play), payment processors (Google Play Billing, Stripe), and—if you connect Spotify for an anthem—Spotify may share limited account or track metadata with us as needed to operate the Services. We use service providers such as LiveKit (real-time video) and cloud storage providers to run Live and Meetup video calls; they process data for us under contract.
4. How we use information
We use information to:
- Provide matching, messaging, Live streaming, gifts, Super Likes, VIP (including weekly, monthly, and annual plans), paid DMs, and Meetup Live features
- Process payments, coin and Super Like purchases, VIP subscriptions, and creator earnings
- Authenticate accounts and maintain security and fraud prevention
- Enforce our Terms, Community Guidelines, and 18+ eligibility
- Moderate user-generated content (UGC) and Live streams
- Provide customer support and respond to requests
- Improve products, measure performance, and develop new features
- Comply with law and protect rights, safety, and property
5. How we share information
We do not sell personal information as a standalone data product. We may share information with:
- Service providers who help us host, operate, moderate, analyze, or support the Services (under contractual obligations)
- Payment processors and app stores — Google Play Billing (Android) and Stripe (payment processing on the web, and Stripe Connect for streamer payouts and identity verification)
- Other users, as required by features you use (e.g., profile, Live, messages, gifts)
- Professional advisors (legal, accounting) under confidentiality
- Authorities or others when required by law, legal process, or to protect safety, rights, or property — including meetup-safety evidence packs (location, participants, device IP, timestamps, and disclosed meetup chat) in response to lawful requests or imminent-harm situations. Meetup-safety packs are held by Flare; if you need a copy for authorities, you must request it from Flare (we verify your account before releasing your pack)
- Parties to a corporate transaction (merger, sale, financing), subject to appropriate protections
6. User-generated content and Live
Content you post, stream, or send (including Live video, chat, photos, and messages) may be visible to other users as the feature is designed. Flare may review, remove, restrict, or preserve content and accounts for safety, abuse prevention, legal compliance, and policy enforcement. Live streams may be recorded (video and audio) and retained for safety, moderation, policy enforcement, dispute handling, and posterity— so we have a lasting record when we need it. Related metadata (including safety flags / “dings” and timestamps) may be stored with those recordings for review. Recordings are not wiped immediately when a stream ends; see Retention.
7. Payments, coins, Super Likes, gifts, VIP, and paid DMs
Revenue and earnings splits (subject to our Terms, fraud checks, chargebacks, and applicable law):
- Live gifts: 30% Flare / 70% streamer
- VIP and paid DMs: 100% platform revenue unless we state otherwise in writing
On Android, digital goods such as coins, Super Likes packs, and VIP (including weekly, monthly, and annual plans) must be purchased through Google Play Billing when offered inside the native app. On the web, purchases are processed through Stripe. Spending already-purchased coins or Super Likes (for example on gifts, paid DMs, or Super Like swipes) is not a separate store purchase. We retain payment and gift records as needed for accounting, disputes, and compliance.
8. Retention
We retain information while your account is active and as reasonably needed for the purposes above, including disputes, enforcement, abuse prevention, tax, legal obligations, and posterity. Live stream recordings may be kept as long as needed for safety, moderation, policy enforcement, disputes, legal obligations, and posterity (a lasting record of streams) — they are not deleted solely because the live broadcast ended. Chat Room messages are shown in a Room only for a limited recent window (older messages roll off the Room view), but reported messages, moderation actions, and safety logs may be kept longer for safety, enforcement, and legal purposes. After we verify an account deletion request, we aim to delete or de-identify personal information within approximately 30 days, except where we must retain limited records for legal, safety, fraud-prevention, accounting, tax, dispute, moderation, or posterity purposes (including payment/transaction records, moderation or abuse reports, and Live recordings retained for those reasons). See Delete account for the email request path and details. Payout, earnings, and tax records are kept as long as needed for accounting, tax, and legal purposes, even after your account is deleted. Stripe keeps its own records under its policies.
9. Your choices and rights
Depending on where you live, you may have rights to access, correct, delete, or export certain personal information, or to object to or restrict certain processing. You can:
- Update profile information in the app or website
- Disable location permissions in device settings
- Manage notification preferences in settings
- Request account deletion by emailing us (see Delete account) — Flare does not currently offer an in-app delete button
- Email privacy or rights requests to ShumpertSafetyConsulting@gmail.com
We may need to verify your identity before fulfilling a request. Some rights may be limited by law or by our need to operate the Services securely.
10. Security
We use reasonable administrative, technical, and organizational safeguards designed to protect information. No system is perfectly secure. You are responsible for protecting your account credentials and for activity under your account.
11. International transfers
Flare is operated from the United States. Information may be processed in the United States or other countries where we or our service providers operate. Where required, we use appropriate safeguards for cross-border transfers.
12. Children’s privacy
Flare is for adults 18 and older only. We do not knowingly collect personal information from children or anyone under 18. If you believe a minor has provided information, contact us and we will take appropriate steps to delete it.
13. Changes to this Policy
We may update this Privacy Policy from time to time. We will post the updated policy with a new effective date on https://flaresparkdating.com/privacy. Where required by law, we will provide additional notice. Continued use of the Services after the effective date constitutes acceptance of the updated Policy where permitted by law.
14. Contact
Privacy and support: ShumpertSafetyConsulting@gmail.com
Phone: (682) 468-7844
Website: https://flaresparkdating.com
Operator: Christian Shumpert, sole proprietor (Flare). We do not currently publish a separate mailing address; please use email or phone for privacy and support requests.
See also Terms of Service, Community Guidelines, Child Safety Standards, and Delete account.